i really need advice

[TBS Trojan]

im 100% serious about this. one of my friends just came out to me(homosexual). like right now. i really dont know how to take it. ive known this kid my entire life. this is like the biggest suprise. i really need some advice. i dont really.. i guess approve, but i respect his desicion. i was the first guy he told(plz no jokes).

[Killer 57]

Well now you know his sexual orientation. Big deal. Don't allow it to change anything.

[WACCOE]

Go round his house and spark him out mate
Theres no room for them

[Raisedbyflames]

whats it matter he not going to be any worse of a friend because of it

[Swifty]

shouldn't make any difference whatsoever

your already getting so worked up about it, not the best way to start

[Outlaw]

Go round his house and spark him out mate
Theres no room for them

Liam you truly are a ---- lol

Anyway ontopic, nothing should change, he will still be the same person.
Plus you can't just become homosexual, so that means the friend you have known since whenever has always been gay, and you got along with him and stuff then, so why cant you now

[Tobes]

2 of my mates came out gay recently and I have a couple of mates who I have known they are gay since... I have known them. As long as they don't push it in my face I'm quite happy with it.

Doesn't change my friendship with them. In fact I probably get on better with them because there doesn't have to be this whole macho thing that guys like to do. Damn Cornwall chavs

[WACCOE]

Go round his house and spark him out mate
Theres no room for them

Please note: I was under the influence when making this post.
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This really is quite coincidential...but i've just been told my one of my good friends who i've known well for a good 6 months now as I work with him is gay. He is back in his home city, and will be returning to York shortly, and wanted people to know to make it easier when he returns.
I'm not really sure how to react. And I know there's a few at work who won't like it. Fuuuuuuuuuck.
Just been told like right this second!

[JJBDude]

Kid at school came out of the closet after being caught touching a band members private parts, first time I've known someone properly admit it.

Your going to have to respect him and get used to it, make sure he knows your not interested in him that way and carry on like you've always done. :)

[Dcontrol]

I have nothing against gays and I have some gays friends. Their sexual preference really isn't something that I think about much. They are mates and I always have considered them to be. It maybe a shock at first but you'll learn to accept it.

[TBS Trojan]

thanks guys.

[Blaze Lord]

My advice would be don't tell anyone he hasn't told. And also, don't worry about him coming onto you. He didn't tell you because he wants to get in your pants. He told you because he thought you wouldn't take it too badly.

[Raisedbyflames]

dont take my who would you bum thread the wrong way its just for fun

[Joe]

I would, push him back in the closet, lock it and throw away the key. Problem solved (Y)

[smileemptysoul]

thats what bowie knifes are for

[TBS Trojan]

My advice would be don't tell anyone he hasn't told. And also, don't worry about him coming onto you. He didn't tell you because he wants to get in your pants. He told you because he thought you wouldn't take it too badly.

yea, its gonna be really hard not to tell anyone. but thats made the most sense.

[Tomshi]

He's Gay so ----...
If you've knew him for near your full life why have u suddenly gotta stop being his mate =S Doesny make sense if you think about it.

[damien©]

Your getting stressed over nothing in my view, he's still the same person the only difference is he's up for a bit of bum fun instead.

It's not like it's contagious or is it :S

[Killer 57]

Well I don't Trojan took it that way, I think he just wants some advice as to what to do when someone tells you such secret, whether he should tell someone or just keep his mouth shut.

That's how I see it anyway.

[damien©]

Well like all secret's you respect what the other person told you and keep quiet. Obviously it differs from family to family on the impact these things have, so I wouldn't tell anyone or discuss it with anyone but the lad who came out.

He obviously said it because he wants your support, don't let him down by breaking that trust. Although I would of thought that would of been obvious, if he wanted every Tom, ---- and Harry, then I'm sure he could spread it round himself. Maybe even literally ;)

[smileemptysoul]

tell them not to join the mariens

[bingo83]

You have been his friend for a while and I dont see how that changes. He must have been plucking up the courage to tell you for quite some time, so you can be man enough to accept & support his decision.

[AK.]

meh

its 2007, id be ok with it as long as he didnt try and come onto me

[bingo83]

meh

its 2007, id be ok with it as long as he didnt try and come onto me

Or over you :D

[Dcontrol]

Or over you :D

:sick::zip::o:Shock::Scared:

All of a sudden I don't feel well and am getting disturbing images in my mind! *shudders*

[damien©]

Or over you :D

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